Hang in there Soberish, you can only do what you can do with the time you have.
The reality is better sacrificing a few things for only a few years of study now, and then you'll have your whole life with potentially the job you want to enjoy life, rather than looking back and regretting you didn't give enough time to your studies!!
Life doesn't all have to happen at the same time . . . there's plenty of years ahead, trust me!!