"When I left, I withdrew from friends. He didn't. He's been going out, meeting people, and seems to be enjoying himself. He and I are still friendly (now that he is past the anger of me "treating him so terribly"), and he tells me that our friends tell him how they were so afraid to be around me because they never knew what would "set me off" and they're glad they don't have to walk on eggshells anymore."
^^^^^^^^Your Ex sounds like a jerk@@@^^^^^^^
I guess I'm confused as to WHY you would want to be friends with him. Does it really matter what these so called mutual friends of yours think?? You know the truth! That's all that really matters.
I am so sorry you are hurting. many of us here know how you feel and sometimes even still feel that loss but the good news is you are OUT OF THAT SITUATION of walking on eggshells, you have started to move forward with your life. Leave that craziness right where it is, pick your chin up and go this way>>>>>!
I am rooting for you!!! Now get to it!
Last edited by Lilro; 01-15-2016 at 05:39 AM.
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