Anyway. Yes. I resented having to make a stand for something so petty in the face of an important event for me. And I became even angrier because of being put in that position. The way he dealt with it was a huge turn off and I need to be with a man who thinks ahead the way I do. I just can't do this anymore.
Meanwhile, he has also had one of the worst years imaginable, and I thought we could be there for each other. But when I saw and realized how he had already slumped into total comfort with me, into taking me for granted, just a few months in.... I wanted to run screaming
I've been a serial monogamist till now. And I'm not going to just accept things anymore. I can't. They'll just fester into resentment and ruin our lives. I can't go through that again.