Lost I am sorry you are feeling so hurt but am agreeing with Zoso on this. Your BF is going through some very intense stuff right now and it is not the time to be going over this. He needs to work on himself and not be dealing with outside issues right now. He needs to totally focus on himself and overcoming addiction and that in itself is one of the most difficult things he will ever deal with. I think this needs to be put on the back burner for now and can be dealt with later on.....and best with a counselor.