Originally Posted by
Thomas45 Nobody rents a hotel room for the purpose of drinking by themself. He can literally do that anywhere away from the house and still prevent you from knowing.
Actually, I do know one person who did just that. It was a planned relapse after an extended period of sobriety. She did drink, then called someone from AA who drove over to help her. She then got sober again and worked the steps for a more sustainable recovery - I know this because I heard it in her share.
I do think it's unlikely in this case though.