Btw friend, my then husband pulled the same manipulative projecting crap-trying to blame me for planning the demise of our marriage when all he wabted to do was be my husband. Boohoo. Yeah buddy, why don't you take a look at what you did and what you've done-instead of playing the victim card. Woe is me. It's what these guys do! Par for the course for an alcoholic. Stick to what you know-the truth. Don't let him twist the truth to suit his delusions-that's what he's trying to do. You're on the right path for freedom and peace for you and your kiddo.