What Lexie said-exactly. Who cares the reason?! He's a liar-and it's been an ongoing affair with booze or women-who cares what or who it is. He cabt be trusted. Of course he's going to lie and deny-he can paint himself as the perpetual victim of life instead of opening his eyes to see HIS actions caused this. Typical alki BS and quacking. It's not like you expected him to admit it? My ex did the same-deny all of it. It's pretty typical of an addict but that doesn't make it better or easier to swallow or remotely ok. YOU and your kiddo deserve someone you can count on and trust-this person -as he is now-is just so not that man.