Jeff, you really can do this! I had to dedicate myself to becoming and staying sober and it was not an easy road at all. That being said, I am finding being sober is so much better than the alternative that there is simply no comparison.
For me, SR wasn't enough for me to stay completely sober for much over a month. It was after I went to my pdoc and asked for help and was willing to do whatever he suggested that I finally made progress. For me SR has been a terrific support in staying sober but I had to go through a good deal of f2f work to get here.