JL......sell something (that YOU own).....and get a lawyer.
You can call your county social services office and ask for referral to the
pr oper lawyer.
Or, call the local dv organization and ask for a referral to a lawyer.
You can go to the website: WomansDivorce.com and read the general advice that they give for your state. That is general advice---but, not the same as having a lawyer. The website will probably give advice of where to contact a lawyer for your state and locale.
dandylion