I work 2 jobs also but my second job is only 2-3 a month and on weekends. Had to be out last weekend due to the inlaws terminal illness, and it's gonna hurt come bill-paying time.
I had a parttime job that paid more, but I too hated it, and it was very hard. Found one that sometimes is gravy but pays less. I'm 44 yrs old so easier is an issue for me. 2 of my 3 kids are younger, and exhaustion doesn't play well, for spending time with them.
Done with miserable workload for the day, off in an hr.
Hoping for the floating in the bathtub plan !