Originally Posted by
Fly N Buy 
Then there are those who accept the problem but not the solution. At one point I accepted I would die from drinking - probably a heart attack or respiratory failure. But I still did not want to accept the solution."
Brilliantly put: Accepting the problem, but not accepting the solution.
That's exactly what I had to do myself -- accept the solution. And it sounds like that's what you need to do, too.