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Old 01-03-2016, 06:47 PM
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KiKi0615
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Originally Posted by tatersalad View Post
Just checking in . Went out last weekend to a going away party for a dear friend of mine that is moving out of state. I sat there at the bar from 6:00- 3:00am with most of my life long friends / ex- drinking buddies and did not have one beer. But i did give in to a good luck toast of a mint luquor shot in his name. It was tiny and i hate that stuff anyway so i didnt feel any urge to drink any more. Now i realize it technically was alchohol but im not acknowledging it as a slip. I acomplished my goal of not experiencing any effects of alchohol and proving to myself that i dont need to drink to enjoy those peoples company. I had a lot of fun.... Actualy more than i recall having drunk. What suprised me is how much people respected my decision (even though they had a million questions). Anyway needless to say by the end of the night i was the only one still sober to drive the straglers home. Lol and not a moment too soon.... Their jokes and stories where starting to get old after their drunk asses kept repeting them over and over (you know what I mean)
Only you can decide what a slip is and what isn't. Just be true to yourself. What others think of your sobriety shouldn't matter. It's your life, ya know? :-)

I'm glad you had fun with your old friends at a bar and weren't triggered to drink. I'm not sure I would have the strength to do that. Be careful this week. That AV may be LOUD. Or....maybe it won't. Good to hear from you!!!
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