Dear Fab, you are correct that it is very like having many sponsors here. There is a great amount of advice and support that I get from everyone and I want that to continue. Having a personal connection with a singular human being has an added advantage of being more intimate than a public forum. Despite the anonymity here, there are often things that a person is more comfortable saying to one person rather than on an open thread. Also, working some steps or getting some detailed guidance from someone you have learned to trust can be helpful. Not to say that all of the feedback is not helpful, because it is but there is something to be said for one on one communication. Thank you for your question. John