I agree with Anaya and MG about finding a new counselor. Sometimes it takes a few tries before we find someone that really understands us and helps us. You've been through the wringer and nobody should dismiss that.
In the meantime, continue posting here at SR. You'll find a lot of support from people that are, unfortunately, all too familiar with the havoc that addiction brings into our lives. Sometimes I found that just typing out and venting about my situation was helpful.
Sending you lots of hugs.