Originally Posted by
BellaBlue 
I've been to counselors to discuss this mess, but they tell me it's over and move one. Which I have done to a great extent. But now that my AS is repeating the behavior of his father (blaming me and cutting me out of his life) all of this is swirling around and I'm really very depressed. I feel my life is that of an abused woman and can't shake it.
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Hello, Bella.
If I may say so: If you're feeling depressed, it seems the advice of the counselors is out of place. Have those counselors provided constructive suggestions to you as to how to handle and work through your feelings as well as suggestions for dealing with issues in the relationship of you and your son?
Maybe seek guidance from another source?
I am sorry for your experiences and hope you may find helpful ways to move through the grief and pain to eventually get to a better place.
We care and are here to listen.
