Originally Posted by
BixBees505 
SportsFan, this resonates with me. I can't build while drinking, obviously. New life completely predicated on being sober. I have to get unstuck and make deeper changes, "hair on fire" as it were--or really, nothing will change at all.
I'm glad it resonates with you too.
Looking at what you said above...maybe try making deeper changes first (trying new goals, going to meetings if you havent, etc.) And getting unstuck will follow.
I keep telling myself this as well! Thank you for helping me think this through for myself, too.