Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
The best idea, I think, is for her just to LEAVE for now. Gives you time to work on boundaries, among its other virtues.
I really appreciate you not sugar-coating anything for me, Lexie! Seriously, I need someone to tell me to just get a freaking backbone.
I was pretty pissed this morning. She couldn't sleep last night, I think she took some sort of upper because her behavior was pretty erratic all day. I found out after I woke up that she was up at 2am looking for apartments. But she still tells me she doesn't know what she wants to do.
I sent a couple of pretty ridiculous text messages after I left for work, basically telling her not to be there when I get home. She tried to smooth it over but then just stopped responding. So I don't know what's going to happen when I get out of work.
I hope she leaves. And I don't. But I know I need her to.