Thank you all again. Kiki, SwimKim and Learntofly! You really encouraged me
I belong with you.
@ Learntofly - I agree with you -why drink if not to get drunk? Your dad's answer was great
And yes - what could we possibly expect to gain from those drinks? Nothing at all. You seem to have accepted your situation in an admirable way. I need to do that too...I was once at around the same day as you
That's something to strive for
@Swimkim, thank you for sharing you experience. It's really astondishing how we all seem to live the same story over and over. Like we're all alone in this and our sense of isolation just legitimize the drinking and vice versa. I am happy you are doing so well
It's hard to face it with relatives also. My dad drinks to much but that's "legit". I have many years to get to that point. I hope I never will...