Originally Posted by
Bluehawaii 
And now he has just come home from buying lunch for her after she was going on her own to pick it up and was going to pay with her own cash but he insisted on paying for her. ����
Sounds all too familiar. Many cynics say gifts express a feeling of guilt among other things. Maybe he felt he failed her and is trying to make it up. The apologist enablers are some of the worst
Or enablers in denial are just as common as "the guilty".