Denial or lying enabler?
Been there, experiencing it now.
The primary enabler here constantly make excuses for the alkie/addict and rationalizes more than the abuser sometimes.
I've tried to crack the enabler several times. Denial is a hard thing to over come. Sounds like daddy is protecting his little girl for what ever reason. The enablers here are afraid to stress the alkie/addict which is admission they have a problem yet won't take the pro active measures themselves. Sometimes that is a simple polite no.
Addicts & alkies are not only manipulative they know who will enable or help them without question and they will use them until they aggressively cut off.