I relate to just about every one of your "highlights", but especially this one:
- arrested (I got a good night's sleep that night, since I knew where she was)
After the first time or two... seeing that familiar jail number on my caller id was almost a relief... at least I knew he wasn't with another woman, or dead, and that I wouldn't have to deal with him and his BS until at least morning....
Thanks for sharing Splinter! Keep up the good work on you!