So it's the Friday before Christmas which, in the UK at least, is traditionally the day when people drink the most in any 1 day.
I know how I used to be years ago, finish work, off to pub, drink as much as possible and usually make a complete fool of myself as if this were something that just had to be done.
I'm surprised just how much publicity is given to today as some kind of amazing drinking day, here in the UK. Not sure what it is like in the US or elsewhere. Many offices shut today till the New Year so it's a big party.
For those who are just starting out in sobriety, and those further down the line, you can stay strong and get through this festive period. It is ok to say no to invites and even avoid the office party if you need to. A brief appearance, 1 soft drink and a swift exit and most people will not even realize you have gone. If that is too difficult then just don't go.
For me, I always have an escape route. I don't rely on others to drive me or have to wait for others. I just drive myself and if I have to go I just go.
Don't feel you have to explain your choice of drink to anyone and 'no' is a complete answer when asked if you are drinking. You owe no one an explanation.
Staying sober tonight and every night means you won't be worried about making a fool of yourself or getting stopped driving in the morning and breathalysed. It's 20 years ago this Christmas since I lost my licence and it is no fun.
You won't waste Christmas worried about going back to work because you did or said something inappropriate to a colleague or your boss.
You will wake tomorrow with peace of mind,
Happy Sober Friday, Weekend and Festive Season
