Drawing some lines is behaving like a drunk???
Yeah, not sure I'd continue with such counseling. I found, with XH, that counseling is hit and miss. The first counselor knew XH was up to no good and begged me to pretend everything was okay for the sake of the kids. No. Good thing I didn't, as he was also burning through credit cards and we would have ended up homeless--hard to pretend on a matter like that.
The second one believed everything XH said, hook, line, and sinker, swallowed it all, and told me I needed to work on my anger problem.
The third counselor was helpful. But it took some looking.