Yes, and he keeps throwing it back in my face. Why did you choose surgery? Aren't the odds slim? What is there to worry about? This is dumb. Etc, etc. Just useless crap.
Because I am worried, he seems to want to "blame" me for it!!
No, I don't know that he understands how worried I am. He knows about my mom and how she died. But he doesn't seem to really understand. He isn't able to bring it all together. I don't think he understands many things. He is too far removed from being able empathize.