Welll........Christmas is one week away........and, New Years is only 6 days after that......
So.....I think you can have a holiday for the kids......
Years ago, when I made the decision to divorce my childrens father (my first husband).....it cane to me in one flash of light (awareness)....and, I went straight to a lawyer the next morning and began filing.
I told him...but, he just laughed.....he never dreamed that I would do it.....
dandylion