[Sad, it might be worth the time and effort for you to consider this and if/how it may be affecting your situation also.[/QUOTE]
I have never looked at it like that...but yes...that is it...I am waiting for a reaction from him like, "I am about to lose my wife, I better go get some help. She is way too important to me. " But I am not...he went to one therapy session and hasn't gone back. He has to want to get better for himself, not me.