Like Dee says, you have to just kind of free your mind a bit. People come and go for many reasons. There are several members I hope to see post here again but it's the nature of life that our journeys don't always follow the same path. I try to appreciate the time I spend walking a little section of the path with whoever is sharing the trail with me. When we part I wish them well and hope to meet them again but every has her or his own journey to make.