I don't know the answer to your question but I wanted to give you a hug and let you know that taking the child with you out of potential harm's way was the right thing to do
This forum is for those of us who have/had an alcoholic parent.
Maybe someone who has gone through something similar with their child would be able to give you there feedback on this subforum
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