Hi Robina, Nocellphone, and Friend of Bill,
Thank you very much for the responses.
I do pray regularly and try to do a 'letting go' when I pray and/or meditate. I'm new at the letting go part! It's a challenge but I believe I am making progress.
Funny but I never thought about turning to my HP for help in choosing a sponsor. Sometimes the easiest things evade me.
Robin, thanks for the hopeful attitude. That helps a lot. It also helps to know another parent of a dually diagnosed adult child.
Any specific books on codependency you'd recommend? Just bought Melodie Beattie's new one.
((Reikihelps))