He is a prescription drug addict. We have been married for almost 28 years and he has struggled with addiction the whole time. Three drug rehabs. I guess I just feel so paralyzed emotionally. I get mad at him, he pouts, we fight for so long we do not know exactly what is wrong anymore, then we make peace and he seems happy it got swept under the rug again. It's me! I do not know how to trust my feelings or what decisions to make regaurding his deceptive and lying behaviour so it all stop. Marriage counciling has not worked. We went, set clear boundaries and he crossed them. It is me, I do not know what a consequence to his lying and stealing should be. I'm sorry, it's probably so easy, but when you live in crazy 24/7 it's hard to see solutions.