Yes, probable common behaviors, among men...(JK LOL)
But anyway, that is why WE are so lucky to have a program JUST for us!
Al Anon has really gotten me through some rough times with both of my sons.
The best part now is I can easily walk away and the majority of the time it doesn't grate on my last nerve. Live and let live I say!
Altho' I don't have to live with them, so that makes it a tad easier...
That reminds me, I have to look for a good Al Anon meeting group in these parts of town.
Hugs to you.