Meli-
Thank you so much for the advice. I've looked into several rehab places in the area but they've all told me that they were "voluntary" and that he could leave at any time. I've asked him several times to seek help. . . AA, a counselor, a rehab facility and he always states that he can do it on his own. When I remind him that he cannot do it on his own, he gets bitter and defensive and tells me to get off his back. . . end of conversation.
I pray daily, nightly, every chance I get. Thanks for the advice.