I suppose it's not a good sign that my postings have become more frequent.
Oh contrar (sp) dear one...It's a sign you are looking for help and want to get better.
You need to follow your gut on what you have to do. It's a difficult time and worries about financial, etc. will be there, but you'll get through them. Read back to other posts where people were in the same situation and still took the step in the direction that was right for them. They made it. You can too.
And no, you are not selfish. You're wise and willing to find better in life. Go for it.
Blessings.
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