((((wish))))
The only thing I can tell you is: YOU have choices. It sucks to have this happening however dear heart there ARE other things you can do besides watch him drink!
It was a hard lesson for me to learn but learn it I must if I am to ever have serenity in MY life.
I am surrounded by alcoholics and possibly at least one addict BUT whose counting right! LOL. I don't know what I'd done if it were not for Al-Anon meetings, the literature, my sponsor and a support group of people who had or were walking through the same stuff.
It's hard to remember they are God's kid when they are practicing their disease. It's hard to remember I am talking to a bottle instead of a person I love when they are drinking.
Pleasse know you are not alone unless you choose to be. Please give your self and your daughter the gift of recovery.
Consider yourself hugged.