OK, but it is not about the style or manner or pattern of our drinking habits , its not even about the 'quantity '' it is about what '' alcohol did to us '' We are powerless over alcohol and our lives were unmanageable , if we can accept that 100% then we are ready to move on . Do you have any different plan to help you stay sober? , good thing is you seem to have a very understanding wife that looks as if she will support you , that is a'' big big bonus'' . Take care .
regards .
Stevie .