It's like having a tug of war with the universe and I was losing.
Haha you said it so stinking well!!
I think once we realize we really dont have control over squat its rather liberating to be honest and freeing. What a stinking relief that I dont have to try and control everything!! gee now what to do with myself? oh perhaps enjoy myself theres an idea!
But we do have control over weather or not we choose to try and control everything.
We like to sit around and think oh on tuesday i have to this and on weds I have to that like we know what we will be doing on tuesday or weds? we could get hit by a bus! what does it matter!?
If you want to make God laugh tell him about your plans!
Living in the now like scott said helps. Go with the flow allow things to be and unfold on there own quit suffernig from the dillusion that you somehow have control over it. You yourself said its like playing tug of war with the universe and loosing lol you couldnt be more right!
I also like what tomsteve had to say as well.
acceptance is great.
I shrug my shoulders a fair amt and think oh well whatever or i just think nothing at all lol.
Love your posts tho always have.