Hi Kiddo keep babbling for all of us have gone through the stuff before.. and can help in so many ways.. hugs prayers and I went through divorce ..it took 4 years.. it was a mess.. he had an accident with his pedal bike and in hospital they called me .. I gave them his Moms phone number and said send King Kong back to Mom.. sorry.. long day here too.. laughter helps. and hold your kids tight. I did and mine grew up to be great adults... love ardy