Good Morning K
Nobody wants to slap you, we have all been there! Lol.
Please change the locks and secure your house, I have a funny feeling he'll be back. I remember plenty of evening where i was terrified of my exh. Ugh!!!! I used to sleep with my son in my bedroom, door locked with a chair propped up under the door handle and a towel stuffed between the bottom of the door and the floor. What a terrible way to live! Be lucky you got this guy out of your home and PLEASE do not let him back in.
Keep us posted! Good luck today...
Ro