Originally Posted by
FeelingGreat 
Army, what is your plan regarding custody? Best case, I can't see you being granted full custody, and I'm sure the allegations of 'abuse' will surface. To a certain extent the addict behaviour can be denied or minimised.
In this difficult time, give some thought to the children being alone with her.
Then what is the point of divorcing her if I have to leave the kids alone with her. I understand that she has a legal a moral right to have a relationship with my daughters. I wouldn't deprive then of that, but not without some sort of intensive therapy or supervised visits.