Thanks everybody.
I'm doing okay. Better today.
I had dinner with a couple co-workers last night, which I'm glad I did.
AH called several times, but didn't try to come over, and I didn't answer.
It was pretty hard for me to sleep last night.
He doesn't have a key anymore that I know of, but you're right, he could have one stashed somewhere. Changing the locks is probably a good idea.
I did call the DV person, who encouraged me also to file for the protective order. I looked it over again and updated some things... I've had it almost ready to file for a while now, but haven't done it. I told her I would do it tomorrow, and she said she would go with me.
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The question you also have to ask yourself is whether you will have the guts to call the police if/when he does violate the order. The order becomes a meaningless piece of paper unless you let the police know when it's violated. One more empty threat.
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True... ^^^I think I'm more ready now than ever before.
Thanks so much for all the support and love, and for sticking with me.... I'm sure some of you would like to slap some sense into me
