Chardis hope you are staying sober. I give myself extra points (Just my way of thinking) on bad days.
I'm having something of a bad day myself. It is a super cold day. I tried to snowblow the drive but a sheer pin broke in the snowblower. I'm getting irritated with my elderly parents who I care for; they are actually amazing for their age and I get frustrated with myself for being impatient.
In the spirit of changing what I can, I'm off to eat a carrot, drink some water and clean the bathroom screen. (Okay . . . so my actions are not exactly heroic but I'm doing what I can!). It helps so much to have you all doing what you can!