One other thought--you said you were afraid that getting the order would make him angry and you were afraid of what he might do. Isn't it pretty clear by now that you can't make him NOT be mean, violent, and abusive by what you do or don't do? Doesn't he simply engage in that behavior because in the moment he is displeased by something? He was "nice" for a couple of days because he figured he would lull you into letting him stay. The minute you repeated what you had already said to him (that it would be for a "couple of days") he acted all shocked and indignant and the abuser came right back out from behind the nice mask he was wearing--for as long as it suited his purposes.