Thank you Ann and Joie. It was a rough night . We don't live together and he offered to make dinner for the 3rd time this week but last night was the first time he came over .. Was complaining that I didn't have all the ingredients and he left to sleep outside in his truck with his dog since he said his battery died. He proceeded to text later on and ask for soup or something warm calling me names at the same time . I offered him to bring him and the dog in garage because the dog barks without him there. and he just kept saying what a selfish B I was and how rude I am . He's still outside . At 2 am he rang the door bell woke my roommate up and was acting erratic . I fed him soup he wanted to eat it in his truck so I let it be. I don't know what to say or do anymore . Was that enabling him giving him soup?? It was his choice to leave and stay in his truck that would start. I can't help to get confused about enabling with stuff like this . Thanks guys for letting me share.