If history proves that your relationship with some individual /or maybe some relative is ''always strained '' leading ''always '' to disagreements or arguments '' mainly through their unreasonable constant outlooks ,attitudes etc'' it is better to not ''lift the gauntlet '' and find yourself in the same situation as on previous occasions caused by their challenging behavior. Then it is better to ''let go '' no gauntlet lifting no resentments no argument , it is you that must change ,not them , insanity is doing and saying the same things and expecting different results , somewhat polite conversation then bid goodbye , simple .
Let go and Let God . somewhat same as above , as above you realize that no matter what , you will never say anything that will change anything as you can only change yourself .
People that you are close to or love and you have ''allowed '' to affect your peace of mind and you'' allowed'' to cause you worry despite your ''repeated '' efforts through love , loyalty or whatever ? to improve the circumstances to no avail with them ''you need to Let go with Love '' and Let go and Let God '' it does not mean you fall out with them or go out of your way to avoid them .
Doing these actions and being sober gives us the ability to handle all situations and not allowing ourselves to get upset by others '' differences '' we ''cannot change the things we cannot accept '' so detachment at times when required or us removing ourselves if necessary . take care .
Regards Stevie .