Thanks. My sponsor said that, too. But I'd like to add our grand-sponsor says "no amends to someone who abused you." I agree.
You mean another amends for the amends at a later time? I'm not sure I understand.
So some amends we just sort of let go, and know that at least we had the willingness?
Legit questions and the answers no doubt will vary.
Interesting how the grand-sponsor take on amends is different than your sponsor. But isn`t that often the case in AA?
Imo, feeling comfortable with what your doing is all-important. And while I certainly listen to what others have to say and/or suggest it`s my life. Ultimately I need to make the final decisions on what is best for me.