Originally Posted by
Keepnitreal 
im so sorry Patricia. I'm sure that hurt. It sounds like he's just miserable and not taking responsibility for his own crap. Does he drink?
He doesn't drink. He used to but he quit a year ago....and he has been miserable but unable to work on what we can do to change it. I keep asking him what can we do to make you happy? And he says "I don't know". He resents me for being happy or at least content....he hates his life but he doesn't give me an answer to what can we do to make things better...