Originally Posted by SUNNYDEE

I don't have a sponsor as such anymore - though I did have one going through the steps. I have closed mouth friends in the fellowship with longterm sobriety that I share with often and seek advice from dependent on the issue I'm facing - and I have good friends outwith AA - I'll speak to whoever has had experience of similar then I will ask them. I know a lot of folk like to have that one certain person - but that's not for me. And I make sure I go to folk that will tell me straight - not just tell me what I want to hear. I'm in a good place where I can make my own decision most of the time and I generally do 'think think think' rather than act on impulse - on less of course I see a nice bag or pair of shoes :-)