Thank you all for the tools
I just wanted to say thanks!
I'm still faking it till I make it but I am already feeling a lot more peace because of what I've read here at SR. And I'm feeling hopeful about being more active in Alanon.
We have a very large family. There will be about 30 people at my house for dinner tomorrow. Most of them are our kids and grandkids.
Holidays are usually pretty tense for me with AH. He seems to think it's all about drinking. And that usually turns me into a cranky bit(h.
This year I feel like there's a chance that I can enjoy each one of my family and not let my AH and whatever he's doing get to me.
I hope that there is peace for all of you tomorrow.