I just had one of the most frightening moments in my life. In reading a comment from fourourgirls (in her red flags vs issues) post I came across the term covert abuser. Something compelled to start reading on this and I somehow found my way to covert narcissism. I always knew about narcissism and sociopaths, etc. but never had I heard the term COVERT narcissism before so I began digging into this...I went further and further and I couldn't stop because everything that I was reading was describing my AH. It was scary and sickening. I'm so upset with myself right now, I don't know how I allowed myself to be with this person for so long and not realize what was happening. I just finished watching this video and it was soooooooo on the money:
Are You Being Fooled by a Covert Narcissist? -
Let me know your thoughts...