I've made the intake appt (1 week from today) for my son, the psych suggested that AH be there and I told her that he will be invited but I cannot promise that he will be there. I still haven't spoken to him since yesterday when he left but I will just wait until he does call, the appt isn't until a week away so I have time to invite him-no rush. I will simply tell him I've made the appt and its suggested that he attend. I know questions will arise from this but I will give my best attempt to not get sucked into a debate or argument.
What Lexi said is good - to just say that I'm concerned about his changes in behavior.